Sex Coaching Online & In-Person in St. Petersburg, Florida
Welcome. I’m Debra Wilder Simpson, a board-certified clinical sexologist and tantra coach based in St. Petersburg, Florida, and available for online sessions worldwide. With more than a decade of dedicated experience (since 2010) working with singles and couples, I help you transform your intimate life into one of purpose, pleasure and connection. I am here to help fellow lesbians and queer women. I will work with men when they are in a relationship with a bisexual woman or polycule.

I believe that intimate fulfillment begins with clarity, choice and comfort. My approach blends clinical sexology, Tantra and meditative practices to meet you where you are — whether you’re dealing with changes in desire, exploring new relationship models (such as polyamory or ethical non-monogamy or going back to monogamy), or simply ready to deepen your solo or partnered pleasure.
Local clients in the Tampa Bay / St. Petersburg area can meet with me in-person, and for anyone anywhere, I offer fully online sex coaching sessions via Zoom that bring the same depth of insight and support.
Who I Work With
I’ve had the privilege of working with:
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Married couples seeking to revitalize their sexual connection or navigate new relationship models (polyamory, ENM)
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Individuals exploring greater sexual authenticity, solo practice or partner-based growth
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Neurodivergent clients (including high-functioning autistic and HSP highly sensitive persons) looking for tailored strategies around sexual/emotional regulation
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Members of the LGBTQ+ community wanting experienced not just informed coaching, including post U-haul limerence rehab
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People interested in Tantra, meditative intimacy and spiritual growth through pleasure
You do not have to be in a relationship to work with me. Whether solo or partnered, online or local in St. Petersburg FL, your journey to a more awakened, blissful intimate life begins here.


Why Choose Me
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Credentials & Depth: Trained in India and U.S. schools in Tantra and meditation, alongside my clinical sexology certification.
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Location & Access: Based in St. Petersburg, Florida, serving the Tampa Bay region and offering seamless online sessions globally.
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Holistic + Practical: My work is grounded in real-world practical guidance (for solo or couples) as much as spiritual and somatic awareness.
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Tailored to You: No one-size-fits-all. Whether you’re navigating desire shifts, questioning your relationship structure, or exploring deeper intimacy, we craft a path together.
How It Works
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Schedule a free consultation – Let’s explore your goals and see if we’re a good fit.
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Choose your format – Online via secure video or in-person in St. Petersburg, FL.
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Begin the work – We’ll set clear intentions, select practices (communication, Tantra, body-mind exercises) and evolve your experience over sessions.
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Deepen & integrate – Over time you’ll gain tools you can use solo or with your partner, for lasting change and awakened intimacy.
Contact soloyogacoach@gmail.com
